One year ago I decided to start writing a blog. When Spinster Jane began it was completely
anonymous. I chose a generic female
name to write under, Jane, and a fairly general topic…me and my experiences
with living alone. My main reason for
keeping things anonymous was to allow Spinster Jane the freedom to find her
voice (yep…I just third personed my blog pen name). While I knew I wanted to write about living
alone and choosing to remain single, I wasn’t 100% sure how to go about doing that.
In the beginning all I did was write and I did very little
in the way of promoting the blog. Over
the next two months I shared the blog with close friends whose editorial
opinions I trusted. I also began to
discover that there was a lot of information out there about single living and
was pleased to find that much of it was positive. Blogs like Bella de Paulo’s Living Single
and Eleanore Wells’ The Spinsterlicious Life, were informative and inspiring to
read. After another month or so of
regular writing I finally started sharing the blog far and wide, where ever I
could think of posting it and I slowly started making it a little less anonymous,
even posting a picture of my very own face!
I am sure that during those first few months 90% of my readers
were friends and family but over time other folks began to take notice. I was asked by Simone Grant of Sex, Lies& Dating in the City to write a guest blog post. I was approached in the grocery store by a
woman who recognized my photograph from the blog. Most recently this blog was nominated for
Best Blog in the Portland Phoenix Best of Portland Awards (and yes, if you want
to vote for me you can do so here). As
my audience grew the blog developed too with regular features such as Spinster
Nesting and Spinster in the Kitchen posts about ways that one can make living
alone easier and more comfortable.
And so here I am, one year, 128 posts (well 129 if you count
this one) and a domain name later, still writing, mostly about single living, frequently
about my cats and occasionally about post apocalypse survival strategies. Through this blog I’ve connected with some
other amazing single living women around the world and I’ve rediscovered my own
love of writing.
So thank you to everyone who offered advice and support when
I began this blog a year ago, and a giant thank you to those who visit and read
the blog regularly. While I do write
because I enjoy the process (struggle?) of creating, I think every writer hopes
that someone will read the words they
have written. The fact that there is an
audience out there for what I write is the butter crème frosting that tops off
the creative cake.
Thank you.
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